The Choice

One part of my e-devotional challenged me this morning:

"Oswald Chambers said in My Utmost for His Highest, 'God never allows us to see another person at fault so we may criticize them, but only that we might intercede.' Intercessors do not ignore or deny fault or sin; they address the needs behind the faults and the sins. We love one another as God loves us when we come to others, not to take swings, but with prayerful, godly solutions." -Purpose Driven Life

It seems like a constant battle within me. I watch people all day long seeing them react to situations, make behavioral choices and communicate with others. Within those moments I'm confronted with a choice. Will I judge or pray?

Will I judge and just see the negative. Furrow my brow and shake my head. Wonder why they don't know any better or get annoyed by their behavior. Sit back and scoff or revel in my pride and self-righteousness, lying to myself that I'm somehow more intelligent or spiritually mature than them.

-Or-

Will I see an opportunity for sincere prayer. See the soul behind the behavior and the words. Realize I need just as much grace and patience as they do. Understand that God is offering me a chance to be a conduit of grace and be used by Him for greater purpose.

How easy it is to judge! Creating a higher standard for others to live by, expecting them to follow what I construe as "good" or "Christian," replacing what God has in mind for them.

I've twisted the gift God's given me. He didn't give me discernment so I can justify judging others or to reduce my compassion, mercy and grace...but to reveal a hurting, broken world in need of prayer and encouragement. He wants me to see others through His eyes and to intercede on their behalf when they don't even realize they need intercession. This is the calling He's given me. This is the responsibility. This is the blessing.